<?xml version='1.0' encoding='UTF-8'?><?xml-stylesheet href="http://www.blogger.com/styles/atom.css" type="text/css"?><feed xmlns='http://www.w3.org/2005/Atom' xmlns:openSearch='http://a9.com/-/spec/opensearchrss/1.0/'><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4190687017273254690.post9042167331133285199..comments</id><updated>2011-12-10T14:31:58.699-06:00</updated><category term='women'/><category term='reading'/><category term='project 52'/><category term='reviews'/><category term='Carpet Cleaning'/><category term='Edward Cullen'/><category term='love songs'/><category term='books'/><category term='dogs'/><category term='Christmas'/><category term='Amazon'/><category term='Amazon.com'/><category term='Target'/><category term='Ambien'/><category term='cats'/><category term='Twilight'/><category term='inauguration'/><category term='Single Ladies'/><category term='decorating'/><category term='obama'/><category term='yoga'/><category term='speed dating'/><category term='cotton balls'/><category term='Bella'/><category term='complaining'/><category term='celebrities'/><category term='family'/><category term='men'/><category term='finished basements'/><category term='step-mother'/><category term='dating'/><category term='online dating'/><category term='giveaways'/><title type='text'>Comments on Stuff I Think About: Kindness</title><link rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#feed' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.janetthinks.com/feeds/9042167331133285199/comments/default'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4190687017273254690/9042167331133285199/comments/default'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.janetthinks.com/2011/11/kindness.html'/><author><name>Janet</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/13719194021742927603</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='26' src='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_1ksZCsomDgk/SlKGyFJdhRI/AAAAAAAAAL4/7cOojMM9LZA/S220/tiara.jpg'/></author><generator version='7.00' uri='http://www.blogger.com'>Blogger</generator><openSearch:totalResults>5</openSearch:totalResults><openSearch:startIndex>1</openSearch:startIndex><openSearch:itemsPerPage>25</openSearch:itemsPerPage><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4190687017273254690.post-6093887841350745153</id><published>2011-11-16T22:54:32.045-06:00</published><updated>2011-11-16T22:54:32.045-06:00</updated><title type='text'>I think embracing the downer-ness of this experien...</title><content type='html'>I think embracing the downer-ness of this experience is one very healthy way to deal with it.  Sometimes, there&amp;#39;s nothing to do to feel better.  It might sound morbid, but there are plenty of days when I go out of my way to embrace my hardships by adding fuel to the fire by listening to depressing music, crying and overall just being in a crappy mood.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Sometimes things aren&amp;#39;t meant to be fixed, but rather healed which ultimately only takes time.</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4190687017273254690/9042167331133285199/comments/default/6093887841350745153'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4190687017273254690/9042167331133285199/comments/default/6093887841350745153'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.janetthinks.com/2011/11/kindness.html?showComment=1321505672045#c6093887841350745153' title=''/><author><name>Emily</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/02669247067972937201</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='OpenSocialUserId' value='07719060219008298088'/><gd:image xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='28' height='32' src='http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_5Z5Scfmm9PM/S75OR67wtZI/AAAAAAAAAPs/hG0KJiGI_S0/S220/d_e-6.jpg'/></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://www.janetthinks.com/2011/11/kindness.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4190687017273254690.post-9042167331133285199' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4190687017273254690/posts/default/9042167331133285199' type='text/html'/><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='blogger.itemClass' value='pid-1220656117'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4190687017273254690.post-5325472010408665757</id><published>2011-11-02T22:41:47.590-05:00</published><updated>2011-11-02T22:41:47.590-05:00</updated><title type='text'>I&amp;#39;m so glad your dad was, well, dad like and s...</title><content type='html'>I&amp;#39;m so glad your dad was, well, dad like and said what he said. And... that step monster stayed off the phone.</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4190687017273254690/9042167331133285199/comments/default/5325472010408665757'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4190687017273254690/9042167331133285199/comments/default/5325472010408665757'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.janetthinks.com/2011/11/kindness.html?showComment=1320291707590#c5325472010408665757' title=''/><author><name>Elizabeth's Gone</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/11052119887212225198</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://www.janetthinks.com/2011/11/kindness.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4190687017273254690.post-9042167331133285199' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4190687017273254690/posts/default/9042167331133285199' type='text/html'/><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='blogger.itemClass' value='pid-37679872'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4190687017273254690.post-4330193587198041048</id><published>2011-11-02T13:43:00.308-05:00</published><updated>2011-11-02T13:43:00.308-05:00</updated><title type='text'>Glad you&amp;#39;re feeling supported!

I don&amp;#39;t re...</title><content type='html'>Glad you&amp;#39;re feeling supported!&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I don&amp;#39;t really feel like I have any useful words, but I think it&amp;#39;s good to write about it and talk about it if that helps you.</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4190687017273254690/9042167331133285199/comments/default/4330193587198041048'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4190687017273254690/9042167331133285199/comments/default/4330193587198041048'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.janetthinks.com/2011/11/kindness.html?showComment=1320259380308#c4330193587198041048' title=''/><author><name>Kim</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/05602481165732790955</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='OpenSocialUserId' value='12954552769661235312'/><gd:image xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='24' src='http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_RrU6ldI3bbY/SdO4B790L4I/AAAAAAAAAHw/ObWpGmWXtPQ/S220/IMG_1110.JPG'/></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://www.janetthinks.com/2011/11/kindness.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4190687017273254690.post-9042167331133285199' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4190687017273254690/posts/default/9042167331133285199' type='text/html'/><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='blogger.itemClass' value='pid-981149835'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4190687017273254690.post-6932630624344404598</id><published>2011-11-02T13:22:27.873-05:00</published><updated>2011-11-02T13:22:27.873-05:00</updated><title type='text'>I&amp;#39;ve been thinking about you. I&amp;#39;m glad you...</title><content type='html'>I&amp;#39;ve been thinking about you. I&amp;#39;m glad your dad has been supportive. Let me know if you think of anything I can do.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;{HUGS}</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4190687017273254690/9042167331133285199/comments/default/6932630624344404598'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4190687017273254690/9042167331133285199/comments/default/6932630624344404598'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.janetthinks.com/2011/11/kindness.html?showComment=1320258147873#c6932630624344404598' title=''/><author><name>Karen Peterson</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/06972093977468313631</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='OpenSocialUserId' value='15711328847653162092'/><gd:image xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='27' height='32' src='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_tSgOZg52t5A/S0wIVAHLz9I/AAAAAAAAA2E/5fSkz-w5hCY/S220/Profile+Pic+2.JPG'/></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://www.janetthinks.com/2011/11/kindness.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4190687017273254690.post-9042167331133285199' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4190687017273254690/posts/default/9042167331133285199' type='text/html'/><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='blogger.itemClass' value='pid-1233558949'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4190687017273254690.post-2300847123451968688</id><published>2011-11-02T09:30:32.311-05:00</published><updated>2011-11-02T09:30:32.311-05:00</updated><title type='text'>I&amp;#39;m so, so sorry about everything. I think the...</title><content type='html'>I&amp;#39;m so, so sorry about everything. I think the biggest lie I hear is that you will go back to normal.  My mom miscarried over 15 years ago, and she still thinks about it. Things may never go back to being normal, but I know that things will go back to being okay.</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4190687017273254690/9042167331133285199/comments/default/2300847123451968688'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4190687017273254690/9042167331133285199/comments/default/2300847123451968688'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.janetthinks.com/2011/11/kindness.html?showComment=1320244232311#c2300847123451968688' title=''/><author><name>Katherine</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/03111672135619695024</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='OpenSocialUserId' value='14633437922610383063'/><gd:image xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='33' height='21' src='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_cxmqOJ-niR4/SJ04Fns0OvI/AAAAAAAAABE/1DyYsnytFEc/s1600-R/Florida%2BTrip%2B2008%2B039.jpg'/></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://www.janetthinks.com/2011/11/kindness.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4190687017273254690.post-9042167331133285199' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4190687017273254690/posts/default/9042167331133285199' type='text/html'/><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='blogger.itemClass' value='pid-2038897118'/></entry></feed>
