Comments on Stuff I Think About: Hopes and Dreams

Oh Janet, I can't imagine how hard this must b...

2011-11-20T07:41:58.938-06:00

Oh Janet, I can't imagine how hard this must be for you... Especially seeing the new baby. I am glad you are telling your grandma. Maybe you should share what happened with the family as you planned on sharing the news. It will be difficult, but the support you will recieve in exchange may be worth it... I will be thinking of you. Stay strong, and try to have a good holiday. Hugs

I'm so sorry to hear about your miscarriage. ...

2011-11-16T22:47:29.969-06:00

I'm so sorry to hear about your miscarriage. I have one daughter and it was extremely easy for me to get pregnant with her, so I'm not going to pretend I know what you're going through.

On the other hand, my husband and I have been trying for bundle of joy #2 since March and every month I am disappointed when my fun friend visits me for 5 - 7 days. So, in that respect I feel like I can relate on a very small scale the loss you are feeling.

I know that a miscarriage is a very personal and private matter, so thanks for sharing your feelings. I wish you all the luck in the world during your next pregnancy. :)

What a honest and profound thing for your friend t...

2011-11-16T13:01:27.017-06:00

What a honest and profound thing for your friend to say. And so true!

My thoughts are with you and R. There's no shame in distancing yourself from the new baby if it's just too hard right now. Do what feels best for you.

I hope that sharing the news with your grandma will be healing. We all need people who just understand us.

I can't imagine how hard it is. Even early on...

2011-11-16T09:57:34.294-06:00

I can't imagine how hard it is. Even early on, before you are ready to tell anyone, you are already making plans, thinking of how the future will all change. My thoughts are with you.